"People make excuses and even self-handicap in order to excuse anticipated failure."
Have you experienced that you're in a drastic situation and you find yourself that the people whom you called your "friends" were actually folding their backs on you?? Well right now I'm experiencing it. ;(
I don't know how to make an effort to brazen out the fact that they're already walking away from our friendship. We're not plastics and we're not embracing the wicked us! Parang ganito:
"kapag sila ang may kailangan, akala mo wala ng ibang mapuntahan o wala nang bukas, pero kapag ikaw na ang may kailangan, hindi mo sila mahanap."
That is so miserable. Too bad to think that you were the one who tries to reach out for them but effort that you're showing is just, of no use or useless! And then when you ask them, they would just make their stupid plea and say some senseless alibis. And the truth is, it's unavailing but not nasty. ;S I don't give a damn ok, this is just me.ΓΌ